Tell me, you have this girl you've been stalking, crazy about and deeply in-love-with but she's tossing every damn thing you throw at her into the bin?
No worries! We know these type of girls. We say they play 'hard to get'; Mind you, not everyone of them are playing hard to get.
Having noted that, there are some differences between a girl who is totally not interested in you but wants to waste your time and those who play hard to get. They are all girls!
*Clears throat* A girl who is playing hard to get with you is assumed to be doing 4 things to you:
~ Interested and trying to see how confident you are
~ Giving you a limited time to impress her
~ Seeing how hasty you are
~ Taking note of your actions (reading you)
It could be a little hard for them to carry on with these if you're not the responsive type (as a guy) so the key to winning them is understanding the stage they're currently playing at.
Hello! If that girl is a hard-knot, you are required to be a creative questionnaire but don't ask too much questions. Let your questions be a question back unto you (from the girl) so you now settle to be a good respondent that'll startle her expectations.
Do not forget to make her laugh! Remember, she's testing you. Be bold, calm and WITTY.
Girls love guys that makes them chuckle and comfortable around when around them.
I TALKED ABOUT BEING A CREATIVE QUESTIONNAIRE: Don't be stupid in/with your questions. This is to ensure you're okay speaking with her and do this mostly when she doesn't start a conversation. You do more of the replying also, which is why you have to learn to twist, tweak and manoeuvre statements WISELY.
BE OBSERVANT! Find out about her condition and current situation. Try to talk her into moving to the best side of the train if she's troubled of her state (MOTIVATION)
Finally, throw her surprises; Let her know you are capable to do more but don't over-do.
Any girl who doesn't escalate her level of intimacy with you after doing these is assumed to have lost interest in you.
ADVICE: Be yourself even when she's not with you. You do not know who is watching.
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Mr love doctor, you are on point. Great article
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